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		<title>By: Cheryl</title>
		<link>http://resourcefulmommy.com/3214/rise-of-shady-blogger/comment-page-1/#comment-48416</link>
		<dc:creator>Cheryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2011 18:43:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, that&#039;s a little condescending, isn&#039;t it?  While blogging is a fairly recent phenomenon, the internet has been around for a long time, and there are quite a few of us in our mid to late 30s who got hooked on the internet in the mid 1990s.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, that&#8217;s a little condescending, isn&#8217;t it?  While blogging is a fairly recent phenomenon, the internet has been around for a long time, and there are quite a few of us in our mid to late 30s who got hooked on the internet in the mid 1990s.</p>
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		<title>By: Jessica McFadden - A Parent in Silver Spring</title>
		<link>http://resourcefulmommy.com/3214/rise-of-shady-blogger/comment-page-2/#comment-4477</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessica McFadden - A Parent in Silver Spring</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 17:08:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why thank you!  I owed you a good comment and am trying to be better about leaving them. 

Also, I had a typo: I didn&#039;t &quot;write off&quot; the software as income, I REPORTED it as income.  Sorry for that very important mistake - big diff!!! 

xo</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why thank you!  I owed you a good comment and am trying to be better about leaving them. </p>
<p>Also, I had a typo: I didn&#8217;t &#8220;write off&#8221; the software as income, I REPORTED it as income.  Sorry for that very important mistake &#8211; big diff!!! </p>
<p>xo<br />
<span class="cluv">Jessica McFadden &#8211; A Parent in Silver Spring recently posted..<a class="ddb4c3cc21 4477" rel="nofollow" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aparentinsilverspring/~3/aHNnpDIo8WU/kid-friendly-activities-this-august-in-the-washington-post.html">Kid-Friendly Activities This August- In The Washington Post</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 17:01:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Best comment ever :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Best comment ever <img src='http://resourcefulmommy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jessica McFadden - A Parent in Silver Spring</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jessica McFadden - A Parent in Silver Spring</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Aug 2010 13:28:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In addition to the Mindful Monetization panel, BlogHer usually provides in the hall o&#039; sponsors room a financial advisor with whom bloggers can schedule a meeting on how to correctly report personal income and which expenses you can legitimately write off. As a new blogger at my first BlogHer conf who regularly paid for my kids and me to try attractions out in the community, it was awesome to learn that I could write off my own ticket to an event I wrote about...and important to learn that I could not write off my kids&#039; and DH&#039;s tickets. 

I met with an incredible advisor who gave me a free copy of Quicken software to keep track of financials...that I promptly wrote off as income since it retailed for more than $50. 

Anywho, a lot of this blog monetization stuff is new to me so I try and conduct business like a print freelance writer. I ask myself WWAD? - what would Anna Qunindlen and Amy Tan do? It usually works. 

I also try and stay away from feeling like one of the working saloon girls on Bonanza who&#039;s owned by a Madame and Little Joe has to come in and save. It&#039;s better to just be one of the slightly skanky girls drinking at the bar.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In addition to the Mindful Monetization panel, BlogHer usually provides in the hall o&#8217; sponsors room a financial advisor with whom bloggers can schedule a meeting on how to correctly report personal income and which expenses you can legitimately write off. As a new blogger at my first BlogHer conf who regularly paid for my kids and me to try attractions out in the community, it was awesome to learn that I could write off my own ticket to an event I wrote about&#8230;and important to learn that I could not write off my kids&#8217; and DH&#8217;s tickets. </p>
<p>I met with an incredible advisor who gave me a free copy of Quicken software to keep track of financials&#8230;that I promptly wrote off as income since it retailed for more than $50. </p>
<p>Anywho, a lot of this blog monetization stuff is new to me so I try and conduct business like a print freelance writer. I ask myself WWAD? &#8211; what would Anna Qunindlen and Amy Tan do? It usually works. </p>
<p>I also try and stay away from feeling like one of the working saloon girls on Bonanza who&#8217;s owned by a Madame and Little Joe has to come in and save. It&#8217;s better to just be one of the slightly skanky girls drinking at the bar.<br />
<span class="cluv">Jessica McFadden &#8211; A Parent in Silver Spring recently posted..<a class="d4bb12a9bc 4413" rel="nofollow" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/aparentinsilverspring/~3/aHNnpDIo8WU/kid-friendly-activities-this-august-in-the-washington-post.html">Kid-Friendly Activities This August- In The Washington Post</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 02:30:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, the IRS is coming knocking, trust me. New rules for forms 1099 are just the start. But it&#039;s not just the unreported cash that&#039;s an issue - both in terms of tax and blog integrity. It&#039;s the blogger who drives around for a month in a &quot;borrowed&quot; car with a trunk full of &quot;free&quot; loot for review. Who is being honest about what they really like versus what they&#039;ll say they like for a buck or a free ride has become increasingly difficult to ascertain.

Terrific post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, the IRS is coming knocking, trust me. New rules for forms 1099 are just the start. But it&#8217;s not just the unreported cash that&#8217;s an issue &#8211; both in terms of tax and blog integrity. It&#8217;s the blogger who drives around for a month in a &#8220;borrowed&#8221; car with a trunk full of &#8220;free&#8221; loot for review. Who is being honest about what they really like versus what they&#8217;ll say they like for a buck or a free ride has become increasingly difficult to ascertain.</p>
<p>Terrific post.</p>
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		<title>By: DaDa Rocks!</title>
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		<dc:creator>DaDa Rocks!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 02:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Totally looking forward to hearing what you have to say at BlogHer (and finally meeting IRL!) 

I think this dynamic shift is also part of the reason of the raise of Dad blogs as well!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Totally looking forward to hearing what you have to say at BlogHer (and finally meeting IRL!) </p>
<p>I think this dynamic shift is also part of the reason of the raise of Dad blogs as well!<br />
<span class="cluv">DaDa Rocks! recently posted..<a class="a5a47774bc 3151" rel="nofollow" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DadaRocks/~3/WaucrPYZHXM/">Its time to street surf with the Whiplash</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Katie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 01:19:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very insightful as always Amy, and just proves once again why you&#039;re such a great leader amongst bloggers.  I started blogging just to have someplace to record our family&#039;s memories.  It was a way to have my scrapbook journaling done before I got around to actually creating a layout.  It has definitely evolved into something different, unexpected, and at times very scary - i.e. having to worry about doing the &quot;right&quot; thing disclosurewise when there isn&#039;t really a crash course or places to turn to for advice as a newbie.  Blogging remains a hobby and something fun to do.  Getting any extra perks are nice, like review items, and it&#039;s nice to have places like Global Influence to join for support.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very insightful as always Amy, and just proves once again why you&#8217;re such a great leader amongst bloggers.  I started blogging just to have someplace to record our family&#8217;s memories.  It was a way to have my scrapbook journaling done before I got around to actually creating a layout.  It has definitely evolved into something different, unexpected, and at times very scary &#8211; i.e. having to worry about doing the &#8220;right&#8221; thing disclosurewise when there isn&#8217;t really a crash course or places to turn to for advice as a newbie.  Blogging remains a hobby and something fun to do.  Getting any extra perks are nice, like review items, and it&#8217;s nice to have places like Global Influence to join for support.<br />
<span class="cluv">Katie recently posted..<a class="55ebe9c365 3145" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.katiesnestingspot.com/2010/07/c-is-for-cookie.html">C is for Cookie</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Sommer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sommer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 01:22:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Amy, I&#039;ll contact your first when I&#039;m paid to camp and swim! Wouldn&#039;t that be fun!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Amy, I&#8217;ll contact your first when I&#8217;m paid to camp and swim! Wouldn&#8217;t that be fun!<br />
<span class="cluv">Sommer recently posted..<a class="ff37525a8a 3111" rel="nofollow" href="http://greenandcleanmom.org/what-to-pack-for-camping/">What to Pack for Camping</a></span></p>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
		<link>http://resourcefulmommy.com/3214/rise-of-shady-blogger/comment-page-2/#comment-3110</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 01:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love some things in particular about this comment:
&quot;...because it is my business I dislike the idea of others thinking it is not enjoyable like when it was just a &#039;hobby.&#039;&quot;

YES! I never liked teaching the way I love what I do now.  This is probably why it&#039;s so hard to hear people complain about the work involved.  If it&#039;s not fun, scale it back, make it a hobby again, do what you need to do.

I also love what you say about people starting just to make money - I agree that I hope that doesn&#039;t become the motivation for waves of people and that even if that&#039;s what brought them here, that they find something else they love about it.  Surely tons of people enter professions solely for the income they can earn, but I can&#039;t imagine that being the best reason to start blogging!

And please let me know if they ever start paying people to camp.  Add in swimming and sign me up :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love some things in particular about this comment:<br />
&#8220;&#8230;because it is my business I dislike the idea of others thinking it is not enjoyable like when it was just a &#8216;hobby.&#8217;&#8221;</p>
<p>YES! I never liked teaching the way I love what I do now.  This is probably why it&#8217;s so hard to hear people complain about the work involved.  If it&#8217;s not fun, scale it back, make it a hobby again, do what you need to do.</p>
<p>I also love what you say about people starting just to make money &#8211; I agree that I hope that doesn&#8217;t become the motivation for waves of people and that even if that&#8217;s what brought them here, that they find something else they love about it.  Surely tons of people enter professions solely for the income they can earn, but I can&#8217;t imagine that being the best reason to start blogging!</p>
<p>And please let me know if they ever start paying people to camp.  Add in swimming and sign me up <img src='http://resourcefulmommy.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sommer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sommer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 01:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amy,

You make many good points. When I started it was a hobby with hobby hours, just for fun. The difference now would be the hours aren’t just hobby hours (a few here and there) or hobby dollars. I think this is why you hear mom bloggers saying they need to make money. When husbands see hours and hours online just for fun it makes sense why eyebrows would be raised. It also makes sense why moms would want to make money and turn their hobby into a profit. I love camping and if I could be paid to do a hobby and something I enjoy, I’d do it more often!

Like all things in life, there are shady people and crooks. There have always been shady deals online and offline – which is why we should all use our smarts and think before we sign up or just trust a “community”.   I think it is great you’ve been able to stick to just selling ads and the Lifetime Moms advertising but you’ve also been smart enough to realize you had a market and created site warming parties for Twitter – advertising perhaps isn’t as necessary for your blog – you can justify your hours in other ways because you’re making an income in relation to blogging.

I’m all for monetizing a blog and when I realized I had a business I got smart and created and LLC and got insurance. It isn’t for everyone and because it is my business I dislike the idea of others thinking it is not enjoyable like when it was just a “hobby”.  I feel lucky I like it enough that it doesn’t feel like work but like any business there are ethics and if I’m unethical – it will be disclosed because Karma is a bitch and the online world is ruthless! I just hope that every blog isn’t started just as a business with dollar signs in mind and if it is I hope that mom bloggers that do begin on this path love it like I do and if they do – they’ll be genuine, make money in the long run and have a loyal following and community of readers.

Thanks for this thought provoking post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy,</p>
<p>You make many good points. When I started it was a hobby with hobby hours, just for fun. The difference now would be the hours aren’t just hobby hours (a few here and there) or hobby dollars. I think this is why you hear mom bloggers saying they need to make money. When husbands see hours and hours online just for fun it makes sense why eyebrows would be raised. It also makes sense why moms would want to make money and turn their hobby into a profit. I love camping and if I could be paid to do a hobby and something I enjoy, I’d do it more often!</p>
<p>Like all things in life, there are shady people and crooks. There have always been shady deals online and offline – which is why we should all use our smarts and think before we sign up or just trust a “community”.   I think it is great you’ve been able to stick to just selling ads and the Lifetime Moms advertising but you’ve also been smart enough to realize you had a market and created site warming parties for Twitter – advertising perhaps isn’t as necessary for your blog – you can justify your hours in other ways because you’re making an income in relation to blogging.</p>
<p>I’m all for monetizing a blog and when I realized I had a business I got smart and created and LLC and got insurance. It isn’t for everyone and because it is my business I dislike the idea of others thinking it is not enjoyable like when it was just a “hobby”.  I feel lucky I like it enough that it doesn’t feel like work but like any business there are ethics and if I’m unethical – it will be disclosed because Karma is a bitch and the online world is ruthless! I just hope that every blog isn’t started just as a business with dollar signs in mind and if it is I hope that mom bloggers that do begin on this path love it like I do and if they do – they’ll be genuine, make money in the long run and have a loyal following and community of readers.</p>
<p>Thanks for this thought provoking post.<br />
<span class="cluv">Sommer recently posted..<a class="e8fe51d829 3109" rel="nofollow" href="http://greenandcleanmom.org/what-to-pack-for-camping/">What to Pack for Camping</a></span></p>
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